Families in Transition
Do you know any missionary kids (MKs)? Because missionaries often move between countries, MKs go through a lot of transitions. My department has resources on our website to help families with those transitions because handling them well is important for keeping families on the field. We recently reviewed these resources, updating them with current terminology. Missionaries often talk about returning to their home country. But for MKs, we use passport country because that country doesn’t feel like home.
During home leave, it is normal to travel around to reconnect with family and partners. MKs see a lot of their passport country, BUT they see it more as a tourist might. And while they may meet a lot of people, they don’t normally have time to build deeper relationships or establish roots in one place to help them not feel like foreigners the next time they return.
We encourage parents to try to maintain some stability even as locations change: carrying a few sentimental items from one country to the next to make a new place feel like home; maintaining whatever routines or traditions they can; and listening to their kids express their feelings -- whether positive or negative. We have a “game” for families that provides opportunity for them to discuss the transition (see card graphics).
Thankfully some aspects of transitions are less difficult now because it’s easier to stay in touch overseas. (My mother’s grandparents didn’t see her for seven years during WWII and back then there were only infrequent letters!) Younger MKs can Skype or Facetime with grandparents so they know them when they see them again. Older MKs can stay connected to friends in their passport country through Facebook, etc.
We have several of our transition resources in Spanish, and I will be making them available on our website. We may translate them into more languages! We also have to make sure the resources are culturally appropriate.
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Because of a serious security breach and the need to rebuild them, the websites for both my and Alan’s departments have been down for a couple of weeks. Since I’m working on moving the resources from our current website to a new one, the timing has been especially bad. Please pray for the restoration of these sites, for my work copying the resources over, and for peace in the process.
Last month, we updated the budget for our ministry (which covers our living expenses) to account for cost increases over the last three years. Committed giving to our ministry is now about $650/month short. While extra donations covered the shortfall of our previous budget, they don’t cover our new budget. Please pray with us for more ministry partners. We are very grateful for all those who support this work through prayer, giving, advocacy, and encouragement. “Thank you!”


